tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8779101194738428280.post876462366821509947..comments2023-04-13T05:39:54.194-04:00Comments on Confessions of ME: Brndoutw8resshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14959665356418479402noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8779101194738428280.post-46138921870283677632010-09-17T16:11:03.399-04:002010-09-17T16:11:03.399-04:00"Her and my father moved from the house I gre...<i>"Her and my father moved from the house I grew up in and I had no idea where they lived."</i><br /><br />Whoa! that is drastic. <br />Um... I thinks maybe she realizes how drastic she was with you and now is overcompensating with your bro' But that's only MHO take it for what it's worth.<br />I also think maybe confrontation may not be the correct approach, although it may be the most direct. Usually in a confrontation only one person, if any, feels better afterward.<br />Blame my comments on a twelve step program and understand that I know that before you ever say anything to your mom you have to forgive her. You don't have to tell her that you forgive her. Oh, and if you haven't made amends [look it up], do that.<br />You have a handle on your recovery but nobody who hasn't been there and back can even begin to understand.IT (aka Ivan Toblog)https://www.blogger.com/profile/07484236901066944983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8779101194738428280.post-3258316573935132912010-09-17T13:49:41.405-04:002010-09-17T13:49:41.405-04:00I came to say what Ron said. My mom and dad have ...I came to say what Ron said. My mom and dad have both done that kind of stuff to me but coddle my brother when he did the same stuff that made them turn from me. And what did they say? "You are stronger/smarter/better/slash/slash/slash"<br /><br />I call bullshit.<br /><br />I know how you feel. It's not good.Lorahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11721629115039897949noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8779101194738428280.post-72253552473484897832010-09-16T19:54:26.606-04:002010-09-16T19:54:26.606-04:00This kind of reminds me of when I confronted my fa...This kind of reminds me of when I confronted my father about not allowing us (his children) to be there when my mother died. I too felt betrayed at first. It took YEARS for us to talk about it and heal this part of our lives.<br /><br />" He's always been her baby. That I can live with. But why can't she stop doing for him?"<br /><br />Maybe that's it. Maybe she's always known you're the stonger one. And that by pulling away from you, you would find your way. Which you did. Because you ARE strong.<br /><br />I so admire you, my friend!<br /><br />XRonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15977027331657615697noreply@blogger.com